It is easy to feel overwhelmed by such a long list. I have divided them into 2 types of tantrums:
Because this age is a time of such intense development (walking and talking for starters), your youngster will have an overload of ambition.
This desire for independence usually outstrips ability - by a mile. For example:
When these great toddler plans go wrong a tantrum results - it's pure and simple venting of toddler frustration at himself. It is not directed at anyone else.
This is shock and dismay that the toddler can’t have everything he wants:
This type of emotional meltdown is both letting off steam AND an attempt to regain control of the situation by protesting as loudly as possible.
This is wrong - all children of this age naturally assume the world revolves around them.
Understanding the causes of toddler temper tantrums does not mean you should give in to tantrum manipulation.
knowing what to expect will help you keep calm. It is your job to show
your child how to control her feelings - a skill that takes time to
Want to deal more effectively with toddler outbursts? Go to the Tantrum Prevention Kit to nip them in the bud before they even start.
Alternatively, you can skip ahead to dealing with tantrums - both pages have advice on coping with either Frustration or Want My Own Way outbursts.
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